Monthly Archives: October 2010

Wedding photos have arrived!

It’s late and I’m off to bed (after a fantastic book club meeting with my Philadelphia girlfriends), but first I wanted to let y’all know that the much-anticipated Love Me Do photographs are available for your viewing pleasure.

The photo montage isn’t up on their blog yet, but they do have all of them on SmugMug- where they are sorted into different categories, and you can comment, and order prints, and spend all day at work browsing through every last one (all 1,693 of them!).

http://lovemedo.smugmug.com/Mikey-and-Sarah-101610

We hope you enjoy re-living the day as much as we have!

M & S

(Psst!- we’d love to know which ones you love, and which ones you laugh over, and cry over, and have a funny story about.  So feel free to share in the comment section, or on facebook, email, whatever!  Hearing your memories has been so much fun!)

Our wedding readings

Several people requested that we post the text of our readings, so here they are!

excerpt from The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams:

“What is REAL?” asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room. “Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?”

“Real isn’t how you are made,” said the Skin Horse. “It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but Really loves you, then you become Real.”

“Does it hurt?” asked the Rabbit.

“Sometimes,” said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. “When you are Real you don’t mind being hurt.”

“Does it happen all at once, like being wound up,” he asked, “or bit by bit?”

“It doesn’t happen all at once,” said the Skin Horse. “You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get all loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.”

From “100 Love Sonnets” by Pablo Neruda:

VIII

If your eyes were not the color of the moon,

of a day full of clay, and work, and fire,

if even held-in you did not move in agile grace like the air,

if you were not an amber week,

not the yellow moment

when autumn climbs up through the vines;

if you were not that bread the fragrant moon

kneads, sprinkling its flour across the sky,

oh, my dearest, I could not love you so!

But when I hold you I hold everything that is-

sand, time, the tree of the rain,

everything is alive so that I can be alive:

without moving I can see it all:

in your life I see everything that lives.

From Captain Corelli’s Mandolin by Louis Bernieres:

Love is a temporary madness; it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of the promise of eternal passion. That is just being in love, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two.

Which was your favorite?  I love them all! But I find myself getting teary-eyed with the Pablo Neruda poem the most.  (I just love the ending line, “in your life I see everything that lives”)  Now whenever I read it, I remember how Emily began to choke up, which didn’t help my cause at all as I looked into Mike’s eyes at the ceremony.  And with the Velveteen Rabbit, I can picture Paul reading it off of his iPhone, which made me laugh.  And when I read the Captain Corelli excerpt I can just hear Jen’s voice saying the words, with the calm finality of the last reading.

So many lovely memories from the day.  Thank you to our readers!  Y’all made each reading perfect in your own way.

M&S

Being married is fun

This post will more than likely be part 1 in a series, because I know that there are millions of sweet reasons why being married is fun.  Presently for us, it is fun because: I get to call Mikey ‘husband’ and I get to hear him call me ‘wife’; we have flowers (left over from the wedding) in every shelf and nook and cranny of our apartment.

And not to over do it here, but we’ve eaten leftover pie for breakfast (and lunch, and dinner…) for the past four days.

Needless to say, there’s no pie left.  It was delicious (as is marriage! yipee!)

We hope you’re finding the fun in your life!

M & S

A great, big, love-filled Thank You!

We are so happy to be married and had such a wonderful time with each and every one of you at our wedding.  Thank you for being there, and making it that much more special for the two of us!

A very special thank you to all of our loved-ones who helped transport, bake, organize, break-down, set-up, re-fill, hang, sew, cut, arrange, drive…. or helped out in any seemingly tiny way to make this huge, happy event a success!

We love you all!

Also, we plan on keeping up with the blog, so check back for posts about the wedding ceremony texts, photos, and life in general.

Hope you are all safely back at home, feeling happy and rested!

M & S

Timelines and to-do lists

We’re in it!  The final week before the wedding!  (I can hardly believe it)

RealSimple magazine has this amazing ‘wedding workbook’, and I think my favorite aspect of it is the to-do list timeline that they lay out in the beginning of the book.  I started out with it eight months ago, and now here we are in the final week.  I was so tickled by the fact that we’ve finally made it to the last column of the time line, that I wanted to share a picture of it with you.

Hope your to-do list is getting shorter every day.  See you soon!

M & S

‘Engagement’ Photos

I had been feeling a bit anxious about being in front of a camera for the better part of a day for our wedding.  It’s not that I don’t like having my photo taken, but rather I just feel silly trying to act natural when I know I’m being, well, watched (through a viewfinder, with a large zoom no less).  In order to get acquainted with the process, we had a pre-wedding photo shoot with the photographers who will be doing the wedding (who are: our dear friend Amanda and her lovely, talented partner, Carina!).  We had a great time and the shots turned out really good, I think.  Mikey had the idea to go to some horse stables that are in Wissahickon Park, and while we weren’t able to ride any of the horses (bummer), we did get to wander about and pet some horses through the fence.

Anywho, if you’d like to see the pictures, they are up on Amanda and Carina’s blog over at Love Me Do Photography (.com) .  Just scroll down the page until you get to us!

15 days until the wedding!  (yes, the countdown has begun..)

M & S